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It's a less common occurrence, but it happens. Though, not everyone is looking for a free lunch out of a marriage. It wouldn't be as often as from someone with an ordinary job and schedule, but it would happen. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. I hated it so much, in fact, that I ran off to China. He sees around 50 patients a day and is always tired when gets home n wants peace and quiet. Though being with a resident is hard, it can be totally worth it if you're committed to the person and you know that they are committed to you - you just have to realize that commitment will look different coming from them. I volunteer every week, I put others before myself, etc.
It's really cool to be able to connect with someone who shares all of those things with me. By those standards, I was a failure, my husband wasn't "good enough" - and my daughter had ambitious real goals that required a lot of time and effort. If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. They know that they are the best. It just seems like I'm never on his mind unless I'm physically in front of him, and then he's sweet as can be.